Daddy's Blog

Well it has been a couple of weeks since the last blog. We have been extremely busy around here, so I'm sure that we have ran off the last remaining readers with the inactivity.

First off, I would like to say that the election was of no surprise to me, although it didn't go the way that I hoped. I am no huge McCain fan but I am also not a fan of Socialism lite, which I'm afraid is what we are going to get here in the USSA pretty soon. Hey just remember for all of you that voted for "Change", what kind of change was never specified. I only wish that GWB could run for a third term. I guess I will have to wait for his library to be built. Stay tuned for the pics!!

Tina has been busy with her new job with me at UoP. It's not ideal for her background, but with student loans now due it's more $$ for us and a chance for her to get a free BA and MBA. So for now it's what we have to do. I'm proud of her for taking on a new challenge. I'm also very proud of her for being such a FANTASTIC mommy. She has taken to the challenge like a champ and is doing a great job. I love to see the two of them together.

We did a easy Halloween this year. I didn't want to be that guy that pushes his infant in a stroller just to get candy for himself. I'm a grown-ass man and can buy my own candy. We dressed Sofie up in a cute pumpkin costume, but since this is AZ and it was still in the 80's she got hot and ended up just in the pants and a onezy.

We got to have a "date night" over the Halloween weekend. We went to the Melting Pot for some Fondue Fun! This was a cool experience...a restaurant that gives you melted cheese and condiments and to finish, melted chocolate and more condiments! What more could we ask for?

Mainly it was fun to get out and not have to worry if we brought enough diapers or worry about the "formula situation".

Sofie has been doing all kinds of new things. Since the last blog she has started to say more words, Mama, Baba, Dada and HEY! (in order of appearance). She has also started to waive hi and bye, she is starting to clap her hands and she has started eating some solid foods like puffs and bread. The biggest accomplishment is that she finally started to crawl!!!! She crawls all over the place now and she's pretty fast. She will crawl over to the chair or couch and pull herself up and stand. I had to start baby-proofing the house, which so far has included moving some things and taking the coffee table into the garage. I think that she will be walking soon and then the real fun begins.

Having a daughter has been better that I could have ever imagined. I am enjoying every minute of being a Dad. Even the crying and tantrums (both Sofie and me) aren't so bad. Its amazing how fast she is growing up, the last 8 months have flown by.

Catch up~

Well, it's been awhile since a posting. Not a lot has happened, Sofie is still teething and sleeping in her crib! ALL BY HERSELF! We had a little bump here and there but for the most part. She is a "ferberized baby".

Sofie is doing well in her daycare. It's too cute, she already has a few friends that she plays with. This is another friend of Sofie, her name is Kaylin. Kaylin is a few months older than Sofie but it's too cute seeing them play with each other and get along. We know they are gonna be best buds!

This was on one of our outings. Just the two of us.

Sofie is rambunctious as ever and has developed a new found talent. YELLING! Yes, ladies and gentlemen she is gonna have a temper like her mama. I guess it's the Irish blood in us.

It's so funny, we'll be in the grocery store getting ready to check out and out of nowhere- "HEYYY" or "AHHHR" Sofie is trying to get someones attention or just growling at the poor bag boy. What's really hilarious is when I'm feeding her and if I take too long getting that rubberized spoon full of pureed goodness in her mouth...boy do I hear it! She has developed such a unique personality. Totally different than that small silent infant we use to swaddle.

We took Sofie to her first "midget car race". Well, it was the fist time for us as well. We had lots of fun. These cars looked like those Hot Wheel cars. We took her Uncle Ryan with us and we all had tons of fun!

Well, some bad news; Sofie has her very first cold.

She has been such a trooper. She started feeling warm on Friday. And sure enough, Saturday she had a fever of 101.8 with a nose full of snot. Nick and I had to become experts with a rectal thermometer. We watched her all weekend and tended to our little snuggle bug.

She is getting a little better but still under the weather. We feel so helpless. There really is nothing to do for a baby except give lots of hugs and tons of kisses.

Her appetite is still good. She can still put back a bottle of formula!

So close!

Well, we are believers in the Ferber Method. At first we had our doubts but now, after sleep has been restored to the Allen household we LOVE IT!! Sofie has been able to sleep in her crib through the night for the last four nights. She is still crying when we lay her down for bed, but she only cries for less than five minutes. She is still fussing around 3 a.m. but is able to put herself back to sleep and remain sleeping until about five. Which is perfect because with our new schedule both Nick and I are getting up at that time.

Yesterday was Nick's first time attempting the "routine" and he did a magnificent job. He has become such a wonderful, loving father. I always knew he would be a great Dad, but he has far exceeded my expectations. He is involved, patient and concerned as much if not more than I.

As we continue the Ferber Method we are trying to hit another milestone. Sofie is so close to crawling! I think my camera has become my permanent accessory. She is able to get up on her knees and rock back and forth but has yet to take that first crawl.


Keep posted for any updates.

Day 2 of mission "Ferberization"

Well, I almost cracked. Sofie is running a slight fever and I nearly caved in and was going to have Sofie sleep with me tonight. With some much needed advice from a friend I was able to suck it up and stay the course.

We think Sofie is getting in some teeth and that is causing a fever. She is showing all the signs of teething...drooling, irritability, tugging at her ears and not really wanting to eat. After last night I think I am just looking for reasons to pick her up and keep her close. But, this is the best thing for EVERYONE!

After last night 2 a.m. awakening, she went back to sleep and woke up again around 4:45. I fed her and put her back in the crib until she woke up again at 6 a.m and then we both fell asleep until about 9 a.m. I know, I know...it's a SLIGHT slip. I'm still proud of myself!

This afternoon we continued with the method. I put her down for a nap around 1:15 p.m. and she cried for less than five minuets and fell asleep until 2:30 p.m. This was a breakthrough! Sofie never takes naps like this. At most she would sleep for 30-45 min.

Tonight our routine changed slightly. Sofie did not get a bath but did get her story. She did not last long... after a dose of Tylenol she fell asleep during our bedtime story. As I put her down in her crib, she cried for a minute or two and then was out.

Tonight, I think it's gonna be a little rough but will only get easier with practice. I will keep my trusty monitor right next to me. Meanwhile, reminding myself it's for the best and will make her happier in the long run.

Sleep little Sofie.

Well here I am, it’s 2 a.m. and I am trying to “Ferberize” Sofia.
Dr. Ferber is a Pediatrician and Director of The Center for Pediatric Sleep Disorders at Boston's Children's Hospital. His practices are tried and true. There are dozens of "sleep methods" out there but Nick and I decided to attempt this one because it promotes "self-soothing". Meaning, a child has the natural ability to put themselves to sleep rather than having to be patted, rocked or other form of soothing. The link below gives some great advice.

http://www.childrenshospital.org/views/june04/sleepless.html

I am trying to get her to sleep in her own crib and begin the task of taking back my bed. I have loved snuggling her and having her hug me in the middle of the nights…but I think I’m just being selfish. I want her to be a good sleeper and have healthy sleep habits.

So we started this long and painful night with our new bedtime routine. Dr. Ferber says it’s the best way to signal it’s time to go to sleep. We fed Sofie a good meal, gave her a nice warm bath. Told her a nice and loving bedtime story, gave her kisses and hugs and gently placed her in the crib. Well, two seconds later as we were walking out of the room she figured out we were not taking her with us and immediately began to scream. According to Dr. Ferber…parents must wait it out. We waited five minuets, went in and “soothed” her and walked out of her room…meanwhile she is still sobbing. I waited ten minuets and then, like magic…she was out. During the entire time I’m watching my poor little snuggle bug on our video monitor wanting so badly to rush in there and grab her and hold her!

Sofie woke up at 1:20 a.m. rested and ready for round two. Well, 45 min. later…she has fallen back asleep and I’m feeling the dark circles starting to gain momentum. I can only imagine what I’m going to look like tomorrow. What ever happened to the “glow” a woman gets during pregnancy? I think it’s our body laughing at us, as if it knows all the sleepless daunting nights we are in store for!

According to the HUNDREDS of sleep articles that we've read, it normally takes about three nights...well see! Cross your fingers and say a prayer for both Sofie and me.

Seventh Month posting

CALIFORNIA 2008

Sofie spent her seven month mark back home in California. We were in town for a very special wedding and we took advantage of a free day and spent it soaking up the sun. Just our family.

"Mothers Bay" Huntington Harbor

I took Sofie and Nick to Huntington Harbor, to this secluded bay where I spent a lot of time with my mom growing up. The weather was perfect and brought back a flood of wonderful childhood memories for me. Taking Sofie to the beach were I spent so much time as a kid was special. I still can't believe this special little girl belongs to Nick and I.

Sofia is a wonderful traveler! This kid was born to travel. Much like Nick and I, we love to experience new and familiar, but forgotten places. We can't wait until she is old enough to enjoy going to new places and making her own memories.

Huntington Beach Pier

Our little girl is growing before all of our eyes. It seems like it was just a few short months ago that I was posting blogs about her arrival. She has been such a blessing and the carefree baby Nick and I prayed for. She is PERFECT!

Sippy stardom!

Sofie, sippy cup, six months! Is this normal?

I'm not sure but Sofie is getting on splendidly! Okay, so I'm not real sure if she is actually "drinking" from the cup...but heck she holds it and knows to put the darn thing to her mouth! Mama's happy with that! Baby steps!

She just woke up and still a bit groggy from not sleeping too good the night before. She had her six months shots and ran a little fever but pulled through like a champ!

Sofie's six month check up:

Sofie has literally doubled her weight since birth- 16 pounds. She is now 27 inches long and in the 50th percentile of the weight group. Minus still having a clogged tear duct she is happy and healthy! She has fully recovered from her head injury and chuggin' along to her seven month!

Some exciting news for us, come October she will be starting daycare! It's just for two days a week. Nick and I feel it will expose her other kids, sharing and begin her socialization skills. I will admit, it will be hard in the beginning but will only get easier with time. At least that's what I'm telling myself.



I have been trying to get Sofia in the routine of sleeping in her crib. I'll admit, she has been sleeping with Nick and I most of the nights. I've been reading all of the different "methods" of getting her to sleep by herself and still not fully into a routine. Well, I've come to my limits. I can't take the 2 a.m feeding anymore.

So, starting...we'll just say soon I am going to dive right into the big pool of nightly rituals. I'm nervous I will become easily frustrated and give in to her cries. Deep down inside, I know I have to do this or she will be a toddler and still climbing into our bed to go "night, night". This will be a nightmare! This is the best thing for EVERYONE!

I'll keep you posted on my progress.

Half birthday!

HAPPY HALF BIRTHDAY!

Well Sofia celebrated her half year birthday on the 5th. We made her a half cake and her Nonnie gave her a half wrapped present. Watching her grow has been such an experience. She has changed in so many ways from the fragile, newborn we cautiously brought home.

Happy, happy half birthday little one!

Here is Sofie unwrapping her gift from her Nonnie.
Nonnie only wrapped half of the gift and topped it with half a bow.


Sofie's half cake. Vanilla cake with cherry frosting and decorated with chocolate.

Sofie was not able to eat any cake...this year anyway but we did give her a taste of the cherry flavored frosting. She LOVED IT!

She should be a bit more enthusiastic by next year.

Just around the corner...6 months

Well, it's seems like it was just yesterday that I was updating this blog with the news of Sofia's arrival. Now, in just a few short days she will be turning 6 months old. I can't believe it! She has changed in so many ways that it's mind boggling. Her laughs, giggles, concentrating looks and inquisitive glances. It's an indescribable feeling of pride, accomplishment and fear all wrapped into one ball of emotions.


She has begun to say what we believe is "mum" or sometimes "mama". She said "mum" a few days before my birthday, it was the best birthday present I've ever received.

Sofia is really getting attched to me. I can't walk away for a second without her starting to "fake cry". She's really getting good at the "fake cry". There are never any real tears just a whole lot of screams and yells.

As wrong as it may sound, it feels good, knowing she knows I'm her Mommy and she feels safe with me. But, at the same time... it's so frustrating.

Here is our little movie star.

Sofia really enjoys bathtime. She never cries while soaking. She just learned to splash the water and make a fun mess. At the end of bath time both her and I are completely drenched.

That being said, pool time is no different. She enjoys swimming with Daddy and just feeling the cool water on her skin.

Nick really enjoys taking her for a float.

Sofia for the most part, is such a happy baby and loves to giggle, laugh and at times gives us all a good laugh. She totally has her own personality.

We will be having a 1/2 birthday celebration for Sofia... half cake and all. Stay tuned for those pictures.

When all else fails...photo time!

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